Anonymous asked: “Hi! I was hoping I could find some advice... See, I've the feeling that I'm bi, and I have been for a while. And that I am now beginning to come to terms with it. (I'm only a young teenager, and I've been this way for a while, I'm only now realizing.) I was wondering, if you had any advice on how to confirm weather I am truly bisexual or not. Because I've been thinking about it to much lately, and I am having a hard time finding advice from the people around me.. Thanks a ton. ^_^”
Here is the thing: only YOU can “confirm” whether you are bisexual or not. And to be honest, what is “truly” bisexual, who is “truly” bisexual? There is no strict definition of any sexuality, so just be honest to yourself and fall for whoever you fall for, without trying to fit to a label.
I know the need to have something to call ourselves, give a name to something we are confused about, but actually the best thing is just to go with it, no need to being stuck on formal definitions.
If you are attracted to same gender of your and also other genders, than yay, by that definition you are bisexual. If gender has no role on your attractions, that is you really do not see the gender at all, than pansexual is the term to define it. Maybe there is more, there is less, it does not matter, just be who you are and be honest to yourself.
Hope this helps.
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