Anonymous asked: “Hi, I'm a 16 year old female. I'm going through a really hard time right now. I have no idea what I want. I'm attracted to boys but sometimes have fantasies about girls. There is this one girl that I feel like I have something for. She is just wonderful. I feel like she feels the same way sometimes. I can see myself both with a girl and a boy. Does this mean I'm bisexual? Should I talk to my close friend about me possible being bisexual. I hate keeping it up inside like it's a bad thing.”
Sure it is ok, and you should not feel restricted by any label. There are different approaches to definition of bisexuality but my favourite one is “romantic and/or sexual attraction to more than one sex or gender”. So if you feel comfortable with that and you feel it does define your sexuality than go with it. Do not forget your attractions do not have to be on the same level.
When it comes to coming out, it is a decision that is totally up to you. If you feel like you are hiding it and it bothers you, just tell it to your friend and if that person is your true friend, nothing shall differ for them, at the end you are the same person but just being honest and brave.
Hope this helps.
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