Anonymous asked: “Hey okay like some of my friends are bisexual and lesbian and i feel like i might be bisexual but i'm not sure and when i try to bring it up to my parents they don't take it seriously and i'm afraid to tell them straight up what do i do? and my friend says she wants me to be bisexual also because shes lonely and i'm kinda thinking about it but like idk.”
First of all, let’s clarify this: you do not become bisexual. You just cannot. You can not wake up one day and say “hey, today I feel like being bisexual”, or you cannot be like “aww, I will be bisexual for you, hang on a second” just because your friend “asks” for it.
If you feel like there is more to explore on your sexuality, then do so, and observe your attractions and see who you fall for, how your feelings differ. Eventually, you will discover it fully and then you can go with the label that you want. Do not rush coming out or finding a label.
Oh, also, you cannot expect to be taken serious when you do not take yourself serious. You should give yourself time to do above first so that you can then consider how to come out, with respect to what you have found about yourself.
Hope this helps.
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