Anonymous asked: “I am a 14 year old girl. I've never been with a girl, and my experience with guys is incredibly limited. But, for a long time, like a REALLY long time, I've wondered about my sexuality. I definitely like boys, but have had a crush on a girl here and there. However when I think of the future, I only see myself with a guy. I'm wondering if my crushes on girls are just curiosity, or if I'm bisexual. I know labels are just labels but I'm confused and if you could help me out id appreciate it thanks!”
Well, you are the source of the answer. You just need to be honest to yourself and explore your sexuality. Ask yourself whether you see yourself with only guys in future because your attraction for boys differ from girls or is it because you have not truly let yourself fully explore your attractions. Please remember that it is not about the amount of experience you have with specific gender but rather who you fall for and how your attractions differ from one to another and what is the role it plays. You will eventually discover and clear it out, but you need to be honest to yourself and you should not rush to find a label.
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